Its good to you know your limits, I am not a big drinker I mostly only drink at events I have had people like yourself not want to come out and use it has an excuse but I always tell them you are not expected to drink I would be glad if you come and just order a orange juice or water.
Well that is good if he allows it then your not being controlling so dont worry if others dont understand.
I am a slow drinker myself has I like to enjoy the taste of a drink I personally dont drink weekly sometimes I go a long time without any alcoholic drinks. Oh completely agree! we dont need alcohol to be social I often tell people this when they make up excuses about not having money to buy alcohol who cares its not whats important, thank you for sharing so much @binkyprod