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RE: Simple Secrets to Happiness #2: You Can’t "Will" Yourself to Be Happier
For me, it's not so much about trying to be happy as it is trying to not have a criticizing mind. When I'm criticizing - and usually it's not just me but everyone around me - then I find I'm more irritated by things like, "Why doesn't he just..." or "I told them to...but they didn't listen," etc. My mind just has a bent towards being critical, or maybe it's a habit. I've been trying to make a habit out of not going down that train of thought whenever I see it coming.
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Thanks. I agree. As soon as that critical attitude comes out I think frustration follows since we can't change other people.
Yes! Although I do believe it stems from wanting to help other people, which is good, the idea that I can know what they're going through enough to know what's "best" for them is not good. Everyone has their own crosses to bear, and I just need to learn how to share that burden with them and not try and take it on myself. :/
I agree. In addition, we can't truly walk a mile in someone else's shoes, nor know what God is teaching them through a particular experience. Everyone's journey here on earth is unique and success can come in different ways. Nevertheless, it is hard to not judge at times.