Just Be Happy

in #happiness9 years ago (edited)

A lot of people think that they are unhappy in their lives and think of it as an unsolvable puzzle. “How to be Happy” is one of the most studied topic in the history of the world. Human’s psychology always keep circling around happiness but never actually reach the centre of happiness. we struggle so much just to be happy but for no actual or directed reason. A person can look really really happy physically but is he/she really happy mentally? This is one of the difficult question to answer because physical happiness is much more easier to build than mental happiness. I will not be talking about really conventional stuff like “goals change”, “happiness is there but has become more expensive” and others.  


Be happy for this moment, This moment is your life. 

-Omar Khayyam

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Past 


If we look at our pasts then we can see that there are a lot of happy and unhappy moments from which we learn and design our present and expect our future to be even more awesome. But however a lot of us become sad on reviewing our past and complaint about its impact on future. Well, first of all you need to understand what’s done is done and you can’t change it but what you can do is change your present and just be happy what is coming tomorrow. Pay more attention to your present and try to engage more with people.

Excitement

If you cannot find anything exciting about tomorrow or future then you cannot feel happy about anything else. It is the base from where our mind and body sync and generates happiness. Happiness is one of a few things that you can transfer it to others and feel even more happy after that. Find something that you are really passionate about and truly care for. Once you find that mysterious thing called “goal”, you will always be excited about your future and what is coming next? When there is excitement in the moment, happiness just happens! 


Happiness lies in the joy of achievement and the thrill of creative effort. 

-Franklin D. Roosevelt

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Relationships 


Relationships are trouble right? Not really! Relationships is one of the most important tool or bond or feeling that develops when you truly care for your loved ones. Being present in the moment with your closed ones and family is real happiness. We make it so complex and materialistic that we forget to pay attention to the attention that they require and expect from us. That’s where gap starts building up and happiness starts lowering down. Just think why there are relationships in this world? Very simple answer to the most complicated question is to feel happy! 


If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or objects.

-Albert Einstein


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Thanks for the multiple words of wisdom contained in this article. As you say, a very popular subject throughout human history. You quotes underline visions from different eras, cultures and time in history. I really like that aspect too of your article. Namaste :)

Thank you so much! Completely appreciate your words.

I think the best thing to remember about the past is that, everything that has happend in the past has brought you to where you are today. I would not change a thing, because it has all led me to the most amazing boyfriend!

I appreciate your words and You are right but I will add learning from the past is one of the most important thing! I wish you best of luck for your future!

Happiness happens from certain chemicals released in your brain regularly. if these aren't being released the way they should, it will be very hard getting happy just by telling yourself.
I happen to be an ever-happy person, and really, im not doing anything for it to happen im just somehow magically happy.
I like your article, but I strongly disagree with anyone claiming happiness to be a choice. its fraud :)

Good for you man! But everything comes with a cost!

Thanks for the interesting information!

@kus-knee (The Old Dog)

Thank you man! Totally appreciate your words!

I feel this comic is one of the most insightful articles I've read regarding happiness and how it's defined in our culture today. Your article jogged me to give it a reread and a think or two about happiness again!
http://theoatmeal.com/comics/unhappy

Thank you so much!

This is so true, i just came back from yoga retreat! LIVE IN A MOMENT AND PRESENT ! not the past or future!

Awesome and Thankyou so much ALLA!

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