A good post. Death can't be avoided, and when it happens, all we have are our memories - and sometimes a lot of regret. When there is regret, the grieving process is double: once for the person's death, and once for not fixing things before they died. Thanks. I will have to read your other post, too. Had a lot of deaths, and most of them under regrettable circumstances. I think it will do me good to hear someone else's story for a change, instead of moping about my own.