Some thoughts about Freud /last part /

There are conflicts between the Self and the Over-Self, because often what a person wants is not what they have to do.The self is suppressed by reality, by the Overself and by Him. For this reason the self begins to see a weakness that gives rise to fear - from the outside world, from the conscience, from the neurotic passions of the unconscious. Psychoanalysis is generally characterized by the intense attention and attitude towards the hidden in man. According to Freud, one is born with the sexual instinct (for him he does not appear during puberty as otherwise thought). Among the reasons for such a prejudice is "infantile amnesia"; the inability to remember these gulps to a certain age.

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From the very birth of the person, the principle of pleasure was triggered, but it was strongly suppressed from the outside even earlier.The Oedipus complex, according to Freud, is the formation of the erotic attitude of the child from little to the parent of the opposite sex. According to him, the boy, even as a baby, "falls in love" with the mother and feels jealous, envious of the father. And back with the girl to the father. Overall, this complex is considered to be unconscious. He has created a child's neurosis since little.

(In tribal societies leader had the most beautiful women as he could have them before any other tribe and carry out random sex with any woman. The inability to have the powers of the chief and humiliation they receive other women, urges members of the tribe to look for the family as a way to isolate themselves from external "interference.")
According to Freud, exogamy (the creation of a family) is a way of forming public morality.One faces the difficult task of reconciling the wishes of three different instances. The principle of sublimation is a form of protection which libido is transformed into acceptable for society activities and products.According to Freud, civilization is the result of sublimated human energy.The impulse has two aspects: the pursuit of creation, construction (drive of Eros) and striving for destruction (drive of Thanatos, god of death).