Wow, I'm sorry you had to go through that! People can be so cruel...Not to use an expletive but have you ever heard the saying, "Nothing gets a group of assholes together faster than something that's none of their business." For me the sheer breadth of it all told me that it was so much more than some personal vendetta against my husband or I. I seriously think I attracted attention by my online activity at the time, but to this day I don't know exactly what I did to trigger it all...