Friend what are you trying to say is that your married life is disgusting, why are you fat?

because that's what I was able to perceive.
And that really is bad, because if your wife does not love you, you do not love her either.
Also I have the solution, you lose not only 75 pounds, but 100 or more, come to Venezuela, and spend 2 months here, and you will be better than thor.