Well, can't totally agree with you.. I find the Dutch people living abroad (that have had enough of the system) much more positive and in a better state of mind. Overall that means, of course not everyone can be noted under the same category.
If you are interested in that part, you should dig in my posts from January this year until now.. lots of things written about it.. too much to tell in a comment ;) Warning, it's a big and complicated story, and I did not share 10% of it yet in the many posts that you'll find... :)