You always have to realize that your future must be able to fix it seriously
Our biggest mistake when a broken heart is that we often blame others, we rarely want to be introspective, what we do is just keep judging him who has hurt, betrayed, and lied.
In fact, if we want to be wiser again, what we should think about is our fault that has already opened our hearts.
We used to believe and hope more easily, until we forget God's rules. Then stop us from blaming others when we are hurt, because we are the one who is wrong because of hoping for the uncertain.
Remember wisely, God has forbidden you not, playing love before the halal time? then accept everything that happens gracefully.
Accept the consequences of your actions that used to not listen to God's rules, then after that, regret making yourself more worthy by continuing to focus on real improvement.
Do not need to think too much about the time that has passed, nor do you need to remember his mistakes, because actually between you and himself are both guilty.
Do not consider everything you experience is a disaster, because after all everything that happens is a valuable lesson in life, and maybe with all this you can be more careful in guarding the heart.
Don't be selfish, don't just say he's cruel, he's evil, and he is very unconscious, because really all those mistakes start from yourself who have opened your heart wrongly and denied His way.
So for now instead of cursing with hatred, much more introspection. Just worry about your sadness and anxiety, just you know in the future, don't let your carelessness happen again.
Because it's enough that you are fixated on him who hurts, it's enough that your time is consumed with meaningless hatred, now more important is that you always have to realize that your future must be able to fix it seriously.
So start repairing your current self, hurry up you move on then focus on what will make you more noble before God and before other humans.
If you used to mistakenly trust your heart, then now you must be wise to control. Make yourself more meaningful with a variety of goodness, so that later those who approach are truly someone who understands the meaning of true love.
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