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Thanks! Minus one thing, ha ok two 😂, I'm the same way. Unfortunately, those internal qualities that we don't want to have are harder to change. We have to want to change them only for ourselves, or else it won't matter (and it won't stick). And it takes a TON of effort. And we can try, and still fail. Sometimes, though, people discover and/or come to terms with who they are when they make a physical change. What is outside can carry to the inside and all that...

True, physical changes can definitely lead to non-physical changes.

I agree with both of you.....surprise there loll

sometimes, I feel, that if you are lacking self-image confidence and you put on something that makes you feel like you look better.....be it clothes, a mask or make-up for those so inclined.........it helps you to get out there to start to realize that being yourself is a good thing and people like you that way.

Then what happens if you take off your makeup, let's say, and go out a month later.

  1. you will still have the same attitude you had while dressed up
  2. The people that don't talk to you then were never worth knowing in the first place......my opinion there.
  3. but always remember that who you are needs to shine through for all to see so until you get comfortable with that use anything you want to get there.......

as long as you don't define yourself by the mask that you think makes you interesting....

OMG I need sleep!

sorry for the blown-up book I wrote ......... going back behind the green curtain LOLLL

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