I had boys too Lynn (3 of the little darlings) but that didn't stop me from teaching them how to cook, clean and take care of themselves too. They learn to appreciate exactly what goes into preparing a meal and how long it takes to clean up etc. They also learn to appreciate their mother's more too. My sons still request their favourite meals or baking when we get together (all are married with their own families) and I love to do that for them.