There is this popular saying in Nigeria that goes "nobody wants to die but everybody wants to go to heaven."

People hardly realise the fact that you have to give something to get something. Nothing good they say comes easy so you have to put in the work and efffor. Non of the successful people we have today got there by just sitting and doing nothing. They all put in the work and got results afterwards which is success.

It makes me laugh when I see people say they want to lose Weight like your friend but never visits the gym and never eats healthy , yet they complain bitterly everyday.

In the nut shell...effort brings success so if you wana success in anything, put in the work.