" I say this as a man."

Appeal to gender as authority: check. Sexism/hypocrisy achievement unlocked.

"Men have so many advantages designed into society "

Falsehood stated as fact with no evidence: check.

When was the last time you got hired for being attractive? When was the last time you didn't get fired because Title IX? When did you last receive alimony, or child support? Do you have any idea how much lighter sentencing is for women for the exact same, or even worse crimes, as men? Ever falsely gotten a Lacrosse team expelled "because rape"?

I just wrote an article on this "feels over reals" nonsense. For some reason (probably, cultural indoctrination since birth, if you are in the west, since you claim to be male), it just "feels" right to you that women are somehow "oppressed" by the "patriarchy", so you will state it as fact and tar anyone who doesn't agree, despite a lack of evidence. Maybe because you read it in history (history has admittedly been pretty brutal to both genders), but probably just because everyone told you so. You will be unable to cite any actual ways that women are oppressed (you will probably choose fallacies like the fabricated "gender wage gap"), and will be unable to rebut the many that disprove your assertion. However, chances are low you will change your mind. "C'est la vie, life is cruel, treat you unfairly."

"being risibly stupid and dumbly sexist"

No evidence provided for assertion: check.

Why don't you try an argument style that isn't a statement of unsupported opinion, followed by ad hominem?