You are brave to talk about all these things. Yet in a way I envy that you can now talk about it with the abusers no longer being around. There are things I'd like to share more openly, but cannot while those involved are still around. There are those who might make judgements on me for that, but it's not that simple. It's good to see an example of why taking children from a certain situation is not necessarily the right thing for them. Many would not understand that.