I dearly hope she has learned the power in the word no. People tend to be so afraid of the consequences of refusal that they don't realize that the consequences for consenting are so much worse. But I imagine if she's already been through it, then she knows this.

They need our consent, by law nothing can be done without it. My husband has proven this time and again for a variety of situations.

My heart always hurts for those who have been terrorized by these people. And those who have felt forced to acquiesce by the nature of their ominous threats should we choose not to. But they are empty threats. That is unless you invite these wolves into your house.

If she is staying with you, it's very important that you stand firm on your resolve my friend. They come to steal, kill,and destroy and they will target you as well if you let them. Should they show up at your door you tell them it is private property and they are not welcome.