Do NOT let them in your home without a Court Order.
Do NOT let them speak with your children without a Court Order.
Use your own words very sparingly. Remember that whatever you say can and WILL be used against you. You are guilty until proven innocent in the CPS system.
Ask them to outline their concerns in a letter or email, and that you will answer them by letter or email. This way everything is documented and they have to get to the point and can't use as much trickery as it is all recorded.
I am so so sorry that this is happening to you.
You need more time to think and prepare, so don't let them rush you into anything. Do not admit to them that there are any problems or that you need any help.
I think that I would try to leave the children at a friend's home during the time that they plan on coming, just in case.
Please keep us informed. You can also contact me privately on Discord.
I want to take your advice but I'm in disagreement with my husband. He thinks we should let them in. I will contact you on discord. This is such a mess. I'm going to have him read these comments too. :(
GOD NO!!!! Your husband is WRONG!!! You need me to talk to him? I will PM you my number. We had to back the bastards down when we had twin grandkids.
if you let them in they will find ANY reason to say you are "___" and take your children. Please do not ever let them in. And only answer their questions if you must but nothing more. Do not give them any more information than you have to. Anything you say WILL be used against you.
I understand in our case I thought it would be best to let them in ,and my boyfriend said NO.. but we let them in.. I didnt know all these things that I know now.. did you have the visit yet?