@dizzyjay, I am confused. Are you a single father? What I want to tell you, is that I admire your goal to be an amazing father. So many men regret, after years of concentrating on providing for their family financially, that they have not been more involved in the amazing gift of fatherhood. I really, really hope that you will keep on being involved with your beautiful son. He does need security, yes. But he needs his father way more than he needs financial abundance.