I've been hoping to read a post like this for a while now. Anonymity does lend itself to taking too much license at times, and unfortunately, that's when decorum is most needed.

So, thank you for this. I'm glad to see others (and there are plenty here) who subscribe to the same ideals of integrity and decency. Thinking about how we would do things if we were face to face with the person is the best way, I feel to go about it.

So great points. Thanks for hitting them all.