PROTECT YOUR KIDS FROM SCANDALS!

How often do your kids see scandals?
How often do they hear quarrels, shouts or rude words from you, his or her parents?

I've read an article of the famous psychologist where she explains why you should protect your kids from scandals.

Many people can think it is not worth of attention, it is not a great problem at all. But actually, it is. And I felt it by my own skin...

I remember my parents' scandals. Yes, they tried to avoid them,but still their life was full of them, and I heard cries very often. I don't judge them, they tried to be the best, but we all are not ideal..

More than 20 years passed, and I still remember my feelings. Terrible fear, depressive mood, I was lost and frightened, and i didnt want to hear it! I wanted to close my eyes and disappear until this trash ended...

More than 20 years passed, and I feel it like it was yesterday... The psychologivsl trauma and feeling memory is too powerful.

The scientist explained how much scandals influence kids, and how they harm them...

Just imagine: your world of harmony and love where you and your beloved parents live, is destroying by cries and shouts. Your rainbow is covered by black heavy clouds. Your calmness is disappearing. You are too small to change anything, you can so nothing. You are frozen by fear and despair... Your world is full of pain now.

Its standard feelings of all kids..

they do understand everything!
they do feel everything!
Any of mom's worries!

I do remember it.
It is really so..

Now i try to do my best to protect my son from it.
It's life, I am not a robot,and sometimes I was too emotional and started to shout or cry because of quarrels in the family.
If he saw it, I hated myself and stopped at once! I saw me in his eyes! I saw my childhood!

I saw his eyes full of worries and despair because he feels me..
He came to me and hugged me.
My eyes were full of tears and I promised myself that i would protect his world from this pain.

Protect your kids, friends!
They need love and harmony!

They can't be happy if their parents are unhappy.
It's the law.