Your Problem May Be Within You — Upgrade Self!
At times you fail to accept the fact that you are the reason for whatever situation you find yourself in. You are always ready to play the blame game; attributing your failures to actions or inactions of your parents!
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You forget that there are people whose mothers died giving birth to them; the world is replete with people who were orphaned at a very tender age, but walked their ways through worst of times and are very successful today. Wherever you look at, such instances abound.
You are making a huge mistakes by attributing your failures as having been caused by your parents. And you stand the risk of remaining perpetually a failure if you don't purge yourself of such mindset. Own up to your failures; relax and carry out self reevaluation to discover your weaknesses.
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Ask yourself: am I in this sorry situation because of the type of friends I keep? Is it because I have been really lazy? Is it because I don't get to associate with the success-minded folks? Whatever the reasons are, you know yourself and so are in a better position to tell yourself the truth.
As soon as you are able to figure out the reasons, be conscious of them and work to purge yourself of whatever the reasons are. Condition yourself to a predefined success-oriented behavioral codes and objectives. For as along as you live according to set goals and objectives, it is only a matter of time before you start experiencing good Success.
Own up to your circumstances and it shall be well with you. Amen.
Yours truly,
@eurogee
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"only you can make you better". We can continue to blame events and people for the happenings in our life.
But remember, life will not give you what you deserve, but what you fight for.
Our destiny is is inour hands, let's make the most of it
This could make a post. Thanks for the head up
Obviously you just gave a real fact to the problem in our society now.
Most person use their present condition as an excuse or opportunity to misbehave or to useless their lives while sometimes due to we fail to identify the cause of our problems and stop looking for who to blame,and all this have caused us alot.
Thanks for the post.
Awwwwww. Thanks for this added information
Amen!
We ought to take responsibility for our circumstance because we are the only one that can define and engineer our own success!
Exactly! Thanks @kweenbrand!
We need to constantly re-evaluate ourselves and to open our minds to learning new things. We keep learning till the very last moment on Earth.
Yes. Thanks for the visit
Well said boss. There is nothing much needed to be added
Exactly.
I totally agree with your point sir... No. One to blame but ourselves... Have a great day sir... 😊😘