The way you live your life

in #esteem6 years ago

The way you live your life has a major impact on the way your life unfolds and what might happen to you in the nearest future, is there anything like future? Well, future will surely come but whether it will be be pleasant or not depend on what you do at present, what you did in the past is gone and have little or no impact to the future. That is why the way you see yourself and your place in the world determines who you truly are, and the way you see the world determines the kind of words you say. So always decide to assume, except and look for the very best you can imagine. If you see yourself as a failure then you will be a failure but, if you see yourself as being succeed with dream, hope, wish, desire and plan. Since wish will not bring money but desire riches with the state of mind that becomes an obsession. Then, planing definite way and means to acquire riches or success and backing those plan with persistence which does not recognise failure. In no time riches and success will come. People don't plan to fail but they fail to plan. To be a failure is quite easy since it requires nothing but success demand planning and commitment with obsession.

I live in the present. I only remember the past, and anticipate the future ". Henry Davidthoreau

The event in your do not just happen without reason, they are driven by your most basic expectations of how you find life to be. In each small moment and in every large situation, your way of life will set a stage for the way you live your life. So choose to live your life with love, with respect, with beauty, grace and focus on the positive peaceful and thankful way of life. And within that controlling way, you will create a masterpiece of yourself that grows more beautiful with each moment. imagesource

Always decide to make each of your life a memorable one. Make use of each precious moment available. Discipline yourself and do things you will continue to remember and be thankful for years to come.

The ability to discipline yourself to delay gratification in the short term in order to enjoy great rewards in the long term is in the indispensable pre-requisite for success".Maxwell maltz

Think about and learn from other people's path to success. Thomas Edison gave the world electricity in order to revolutionalize the world. Colonel Sanders, founder of Kentucky Fried chicken gave the World Fried chicken in a package container and became one of the most successful chicken vendors in the fast food industry today. Asa Candler gave the World Coca Cola in a can container and today Coca Coca has become the best entertainment drink in any occasions. Andrew Carnegie gave the world America steel and died a billionaire. Henry Ford gave the world cars and Lorries before he departed the world. As a result of these people's achievements, the world continues to remember them for what they have done. image

The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of the others" Mahatma Ghandi
If you live for yourself, you will die and no one will remember you but if you live for others, you will forever be celebrated.

To achieve anything in life, it is imperative to assume responsibility in the way you live your life. No matter what happened to you in the past, you have an obligation. You can look around you and see what your community needs that you can provide. By doing this, you will notice a great change in the way you live your life.Although, it is quite difficult to know precisely what your would be but, nevertheless you can know with confidence, that whatever tomorrow does offer, there will always be a way for you to make the most significant part of it.

The value and goodness of life never go away. They are just presented to you in a new and more fulfilling way. let remember that life lived for tomorrow will always be just a day to be realised. Having that at the back of your mind, then you don't have to bother more about tomorrow, for our today 's activities determined our tomorrow.

We often anticipate the future that is yet to come, whereas the future lies in today's success as an individual or organization. Your tomorrow does not depend where you are but which way you go, that is, your result do not depend on what had happened or what you have but on what you do with it, not having much money doesn't now doesn't make you poor tomorrow, but your set goals which you refused to actualize whether through your lackadaisical attitude or you trying to award blame on invisible force or individual person that you thought supposed to be of help but refused. I can say we are the architect of what in life whether we make it or otherwise, stop waiting for someone to tell you what to-do with you life. There is an adage which says "a kids that Is up and doing, willing to learn and stretch forth is hand would only be helped by his parents" I don't know whether I get the interpretation well enough.meaning that is it only when we are up and going that assistance from people would surely surface.

Roosevelt stated: "Nothing in the world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain, difficulty… I have never in my life envied a human being who led an easy life. I have envied a great many people who led difficult lives and led them well."

I totally agree with this man, it is just like the money, one doesn't work for, you are bound to spend it as your like, compare to little amount you own yourself, there will surely be different in the manner you are going to spend, I know some of us will even hold on to it before making use of the money in a more meaningful way.

Let everything you do today be done as if it makes a difference in life, let's remember that, whatever value you added to life we always comes back to you. Also, our words do not end when will speak them and actions do not stop when we completed them

Nothing good ever come easy, and there is nothing like something for nothing.
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A lot of wise words here @adeyemidrey; words to live by for sure!

I found your post because @chekohler featured you in his Pay it Forward Curation Contest entry; feel free to join us with an entry of your own anytime :)

Thanks for the lovely response. I may decide to join at anytime.

Hey @adeyemidrey

It's so important to live a life you can be proud of and I agree it's not easy being a decent person in a world and time of such indecency but it doesn't mean it's not worth it. As you set an example you give others permission to do the same. Reach one teach one as they say


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I love your approach on this topic, you summarize all the point without leaving any key point untouched.

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nice wrap up @adeyemidrey, that's why people says "speak easier than done" even to speak our mind we need some good sources and learn about it, we need to dream so than we can create strategy to make the dream come true. think positive and you'll act positively too. couldn't agree more with everything you put in this thoughtful article.

i found your post through @chekohler entry post in the pay it forward contest this week and Thanks for sharing!

Much wisdom is here, I would challenge others though that there will always be aspects of life you are not in control of - you're only in control of your response to them. But there are other things which are fruit of the seeds you sow - and those we must sow with great care and diligence, ensuring we fertilize them appropriately.
But great article.

I found you today because @chekohler featured you in the Pay it Forward Curation contest. Keep up the great work!

Thanks for the support, I really appreciate. Looking forward to seeing you again.

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