Hope you are feeling better nao zizi ,well cheating to me is a terrible thing in a relationship and can break a relationship if care is not taken,well both men and women cheat, so the same way cheating is found in man,so also cheating is common in women a relationship can still work after a partner is caught cheating thou its going to be hard,and trust will surely becomes an issues again,the best thing is trying not to cheat on your spouse,if your spouse is doing what you dont like call him and talk to him or her or if you are not interested again,kindly move but pls cheating should not be an option

Any 1: masturbation is a very bad disease and its worst when someone is addicted to it,let me tell you the truth,marriage wont stop you from mastubating,if you think when you get married you will stop masturbating,that is a big lie dear,you wont because when your husband is not around or travelled you will still mastubate,mastubating is just like an evil spirit and does not know if you are married or not,so the first step is to seek help on matubation,stop it now before it ruin you,even to God its a big sin. you are asking God for a favour and you are still masturbating,dont you think its one of the reason no one is asking you out,stop masturbating pray harder and your husband will surely come,the way you describe yourself seems you are a good lady,again dont marry because you want to start having sex,marry because you want to not because of sex because once you are tired of having sex,the love you have for him will fade away,its quite normal to feel horny,you are not the only one going thru this so keep calm,feeling horny is not bad but letting that feelings get over you,that is the problem,when you are feeling horny

1. excercise
2. go out with friends
3. Watch movie
4. sing,pray do anything but dont be alone
   weldone,you have tried,just keep waiting even thou its had when you have had sex before,pray and before you know it your man is on the way.

Dress fine always,you dont have to woo any man,but you should have least have a crush,dress fine to work,go out with friends

Any 2: I think both guys are not the best for you,why limiting yourself to those two guys when you can get someone better than them,he puts his family before you,he will always do it even when you get married to him,and then it might become unberable to you,the other one is not too caring,seems you like a very caring guy,this one is still better some guys are just that way,they meant no harm but they are just not the caring type,call him and talk to me and see if he improves,if not its better you take chillpills