It's been a while and I had to break rules to come check the show.
I like your topic today, this is what happens to almost everyone, at first the relationship is like it's not gonna end and after few months we begin to notice their weaknesses, it only takes a mature mind to stand.

  Advice

The two anonymous seems confusing , sometimes I don't like to conclude on someone else's issue because such mistakes happen to me too and I called them "the truth" but when it happens to another I see them as "a lie" . Especially to anonymous 2.

Anonymous 1
Running away doesn't solve anything, I believe it was a Christian marriage which permit no divorce or separation, it was sworn as for better for worst,so stay and work things out. Now I don't know if you introduced your husband to your parents or it was just a two persons agreement if you did,It would have solved one of your problem. Going back to your old life is not an option now that you are married and relaying on him for money to start a business has already proven bad. Why ? Because he doesn't trust you. So the only thing to do aside the options other advisers has given, make him trust you to be faithful, he may change his mind ,if no,then do what @igweyakubu advice

Anonymous 2
She have a reason to have done what she did,it's you to find out. That will be only through communication and trying what @igweyakubu advice