Amazing @zizymena...
Youre are actually solving problems and helping people get better.
I like today's topic cause it is something thats found almost everywhere and in all kinds of human interactions and relationships.
But as pertaining to relationships with the opposite sex [dating], this is well said that;

Expectations based on assumptions results in failed relationships.

One major reason i feel causes this menace is people who have been hurt or broken in the past, who try to evaluate present and future happening using past bad experiences.
Its so disheartening when you're with someone and they expect you to act and react like someone they've experienced in the past. Its like judging by wrong standards.
And it actually causes emotional tension and frustration.
"If you think i would act badly, then i can just go ahead"

I would advice that after a breakup, you take out time to recover your whole self and do your new partner a whole lot of good bt seeing them for themselves and not through the lens of bad experiences.

Thanks @zizymena...take accolades😘💝
Resteemed!