Possibilities of one night

My youngest relatives had fun in the living room of the house, the elders laughed at each of the occurrences they made, I was in the studio thinking about what I could get to write. From the room I could hear what they were talking about, the elders wanted to know how they would be able to invite a girl to dance if the opportunity presented itself, it seemed normal for adults to want to intervene in the lives of the little ones, but a very loud whisper called my attention that said “How do you think Jose would do it?” after that I couldn't hear anything.

But I kept thinking How would I invite a girl to dance? I've danced with girls before, but as far as I remember they invited me to do it, I shouldn't say or do much. But if so, that I find a beautiful girl who wants to touch her skin without a sexual act or something prior to that, I think it would be very pathetic, I am not very sociable or very confident, so I would ruin it in seconds.

Even if I was already in a drunken state where I feel that I can do everything, I would wait to make eye contact with the girl, I would greet her in the distance, I would smile at her, I would look away for a while, I would look to see other places contrary to where It is found although I would not lose sight of it according to the scope of my visual field, I would expect a song that I considered appropriate, I would look at it again waiting for it to look at me, and when we had made a second eye contact, I would extend my hand with a gesture of chivalry that Show in the movies to get a girl to dance and I made a gesture with my eyes so that I knew that I want to dance with her. If I didn't make eye contact a second time, I would approach her and say “Hey, it's weird that you look at me and I do the same. Don't you want to dance?” If she said no, then I would say “Then no you look at me as if we were going to get married, I was already thinking about the names of the children” in a sarcastic and mocking tone, if she laughs, I will introduce me, talk to her and invite her to dance later, if she doesn't, well… I'll look stupid.

Yes, I know, I handle everything with alcohol, I am a very shy person, in a state of intoxication I could handle the situation better. But in the event that there was no alcohol, I saw a girl I wish to dance with me and be surrounded by friends, in a group, the worst situation. First of all I would have to arm myself with courage, repeat a mantra like “You can do it if you trust you” I would expect to make eye contact with the desired girl, I would smile at her and if I have enough courage I can even wink at her, how far I have come let's see, women tell each other everything, so that would make them talk about me and at least look at me, having their attention, I would put a good posture, that it would look natural, I would seek to talk with trusted friends, make them laugh or tell about the situation so that they laugh as if I told them a joke, it may sound silly, but that can get a little attention, after having it in the spotlight with my visual field and see that it does not look away, I look at it, I walk towards the group and I ask her to dance. By drawing the attention of her and her friends, her friends can encourage her to go with me, by separating her from the group she would make a joke, some comment towards me, such as “Hey, I just wanted to get you out of your group, I dance Horrible, I don't even know the song. Do you want to talk at least?” If she laughs with that, it's all mine all night.