mmm, wow.. such an intersting post!!! yes, happiness is a pleasure between two pains.. i quite agree. that is the dualistic world we live in... sometimes we NEED to fall into a hole. .. there are lessons to be learned.. with that said, there are times when we really dont need to be there again, or any longer.. or we have gotten out and somehow fallen in again so that we can relearn our lessons even deeper..

i have NO idea where i would be on your list though ;-) maybe ive been on number 8 for some time! <3 thanks for this, i hope you linked it on my post as I MIGHT miss it otherwise on my tie up..