RE: From a slave to a master, chapter # 12 - The Dualistic Structure of relationships, part IV
...have chosen to remain together and not divorce. Then, following many years of struggles, fights, arguments, and hell, they have managed to find the golden trail on which they walk bruised but content.
Unfortunately in many cases you might be right. But on the other hand would you be alone when your time comes. If you were alone at your last day, your last breath, without someone who had always been there for you, in bad or good times. I believe, it would be the saddest day of your entire life. That’s what my vision of dualistic life is. Going through amazing times, good times, even bad or tough times. Just growing together. And to me it’s worth it to grow old together. That’s my vision of growing old. However, I, as well can understand people reaching the complete bottom where even their health, their life could get destroyed while being together. In this cases, sad, drastic and regrettable choice has to be made... Only faith can help them to get through this instead of making these drastic choices.
Your path is honored of course.
Since my blog is about enlightenment and realization I focus on that. So for me, a separation is a small price to pay on the path.
Obviously, there is no right or wrong.