I agree with you, Love just is, I think it is important to define what love is to you and that there is a thing too, we all have different ideas of what love is. Mine has changed down through the years, esp when I did not love myself, I confused love with lust and desire. Trying to possess love changes it into something else, restricting it changes it again. Love just is and it flows freely ,we just need to let it be and then we can see it for what it is xx I really could understand what you were trying to say, I think lol xxx