It is not difficult to balance online and offline life... because online life kind of take a lot of time and specially on situations like your that You have a family of Your own it might be even more difficult. :( But soon You will find the balance and it looks like Your wife is there for You to support You on this stage that You might be more busy just try to get the initial push to lift for a better future to all of You.

In my case and my story it is too long and depressing to get it out there! How do I deal with that???? I found that the best way for me is to not deal with my depression stages. I just live them and when I am ready I close them inside of me until a new one come or an old one comeback to haunt me. It works in my case.

I probably will get to a point where I cant deal with all of this repressed Years and I will go crazy (like get me to the madhouse crazy) or even worst (but I don't even like to think of that scenarios)

If You ever need to talk... You know You can count on me! :P