oh no no no! No one's buying me. Haaaa, What's up girl. Wow. You know the state of Alabama may be the first state to no longer require marriage certificates. I thought to myself, wow....Are they breaking up the institution of marriage. Like because of the hassel of divorce etc? like I was so confused. But, no I was married. I do not view it as a transition. It's a relationship, nowhere near as easy hunny <3 lolololololo. But I see what you mean, the tradition from marriage back in the day was for money. Think about it. All over the world too. Some for family. etc... I think at this point the right person could have me for fixing my hip. haaaaaaaaaaaaa. I'm awful. lololol. BUt i was married for 6 years; I've never been so Happy single. You give so much of yourself and people rarely know how to appreciate one another. We all do it... we've been conditioned to view things as disposable. Long time ago we reused everything, took care of things. Now we have everything to toss in the trash. If you don't think years of that kind of conditioning can relate to how people treat other as disposable, think again. I think a person should be free to think whatever their marriage is, so long as it's the choice that they want. I believe no one should have to be made to do anything. Much love lady <3