RE: The Power of Being Authentic & Free
But how can one not ever be authentic? What is the crux of being authentic vs fake vs wearing a mask? The mask one would choose to wear is still an extension of the authentic self.
What does it truly mean to be authentic?
I highly doubt anyone can escape authenticity, the problem is others willingness to admit this or agree. Even when you lie, it is still a reflection of the authentic self.
I've thought about this a lot, it seems to be a preference for others to be vulnerable, not necessarily "authentic" (a seemingly empty word). Which makes sense, considering it gives people an advantage in how to deal with you, cooperate with you, which can be very productive. The flip side is that being fully out there and open, is borderline suicidal.
I think it's critical to balance this to some degree dependent upon context and your desires... just some food for thought.
Interesting thoughts. I mean for some being authentic means wearing a mask. When I use the term I am simply saying be free to be who you are and express yourself. Yes some people may really be liars but that's not a standard I would want anyone living up to.
Hopefully our authenticity is for the benefit of others but we know that being free can offend some. I get where you're coming from though. People should just be open free, transparent and embrace who they are. Do you agree that people are pressured to be someone else when that is not who they really are at the core?
And don't you think people wearing masks negatively impacts society?
I don't think masks negatively impact society. I think they can be rather critical, depending on context. Some people are pressured, but it is still they who give in to the pressure. Is it healthy? I'm not so sure, but I wouldn't expect people to be transparent about everything (not saying you have the expectation). There's variations and gradations to this. There is usefulness to a mask, especially in security and/or exposing grievances and wrong-doing. Not all heroes can reveal their identity. Even on a more personal level, there is still usefulness to not revealing all your cards. To be totally transparent exposes some vulnerabilities and diminishes some level of personal value.