RE: Unplugging yourself from the Matrix - Denial and Acceptance
the truth sometimes do hurts... to be honest, perhaps at a certain age(i'm 24) i just want to be careful with my words so i don't offend the other person, but i still want to be honest because friends do deserve honest opinions and i do want to help them! To be honest, i can't help thinking about how honest i can be, some people just choose to deny the truth about themselves, you tell them something, and they would not listen and continue to babble their story. at this point, i felt like im wasting my effort so i usually remain silent and just be a listener. After all, that is what they need
Lol, can't believe a child would say "the world is against me..." , that is deep and too young for a young child to say. i mean, children should just be happy
You can be honest without hurting other people's feelings :)
You shouldn't worry about offending when being yourself. Being yourself is the ultimate thing you can do in the universe; blunting that by auto-censoring yourself dilutes what makes you different than the rest.
thanks a lot for the encouragement =)