I understand perfectly where you are coming from, Andy.
Most children were not cherished when I was growing up like they are today. It was “spare the rod and spoil the child” at home and at school.
Being shown little affection as a child and not told you were special makes for less confidence and one tends to not set the bar high enough when it comes to relationships.
I don’t think we ever get over our childhood but our parents only knew what they were taught. Most had their own demons to deal with being in unhealthy relationships themselves.
You are a wonderful caring person, Andy. Rejoice in knowing you are a special lady. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️