Well man or girl are the same really, we both like in some degree that the other must take control. I mean when im in the kitchen i can think all i want, but my woman can snap her fingers and she knows excatly what she wants to create, but i have no clue!! So in some situations must a man take control, but in many others are we all happy that we have resourcefull woman! Or else we would be screwd, and vice versa. Balance is the key and that can only be reached by playing smart :)