Thanks @ablaze it means a lot especially coming from you, I don't have your "plume" when I write, it's a french expression meaning that I will never manage to captivate my audience with my words the way you do , so for me that you enjoyed the backstory means a lot, as my style is very messy.

3 times I almost deleted the whole text after posting because it's a personal story, and thought it was maybe too much :) . I actually sent the video to my father yesterday and it moved him a lot, he wrote me a lengthy message , I was surprised, maybe that was the whole point of recording it in the first place !