I have been using dating sites 20 years ago. They don't work. Not for men who are not on the top 20%. But then again the top 20% of men don't need dating sites.

And hence i have given up. Not just dating sites. I have given up on dating all together.

Maybe your conclusion is wrong. Maybe only the top 20% don't need dating sites because they have an easier time meeting others. That would be apex fallacy.

And the bottom 80% of straight men don't use dating sites because they have given up hope all together.