Divorce: How do a husband and wife handle it in their own ways

Are couples emotionally similar when coping up with the collapse of their family unit? Emphatically yes, regardless of circumstances and their personal values. Husband and wife, or rather an ex - husband and ex - wife take the news of divorce with equally striking impact and experience the early dramas of the crisis with stress itself as part of the changes. 

However, as the condition is advancing and designating is such in radical response since it involves a change of address or the custody of the children, the perspectives of emotional management on the crisis varies with some and also in others.

Men, on the one hand, ask help with coaching groups to overcome the predicaments related to paternity and feelings of separation. Do not even ignore the issue of children custody which goes to the mothers who are usually more favorable to judgments in the trial if the matter is conducted legally. On many occasions, and despite not being a judge who decides on who should the children live with, men themselves are transferring child custody to the mother for reasons of addiction or considering the mothers are more suitable in caring for their kids.

Meanwhile, women flock to divorce specialists because they are lost in matters of delegating with their former spouse. This is especially related to the concerns about their savings and occupational preparations, but there are also many divorcees who need support to recover and face the outside world and resume an intimate relationship with a new person. 

Latest Data for the U.S: (for presentation purposes only)

Number of marriages: 2,140, 272 (49 reporting States and D.C)

Marriage rate: 6.9 per 1,000 total population (49 reporting States and D.C)

Divorce rate: 3.2 per 1,000 population (45 reporting States and D.C.)

Source: CDC

“There is no such thing as a "broken family." Family is family, and is not determined by marriage certificates, divorce papers, and adoption documents. Families are made in the heart. The only time family becomes null is when those ties in the heart are cut. If you cut those ties, those people are not your family. If you make those ties, those people are your family. And if you hate those ties, those people will still be your family because whatever you hate will always be with you.” 

― C. JoyBell C.

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