You don't even need to be in the same state
you got that right. I had it happen to me back in the early/middle nineties.
I drove for Werner Enterprise back then. We had brand new QualCom. Text messaging.
A lady dispatcher took exception to what I wrote (I think i said 'honey', or 'dear'...I'm from Texas...that's the way we talk)
I was deadheaded 2000 miles to get an ass chewing....and a serious warning.
never ever trust a woman (he said)