Thanks for being part of exploring the topic! A lot of people aren't actually brave enough because we have to commit to something beyond simply pointing out that something is wrong and we want something better.

Its is, indeed, a very subjective experience. I also agree that a certain degree of "freedom" is needed, and that freedom can possibly be arrived at by consensus. Of course, one of the aspects of freedom is that we must also have the experience/wisdom to handle it constructively rather than DEstructively. When pressed, a lot of people see a one-way street... they should be "free" to have their beliefs, but those with differing beliefs should be "restricted." Which, of course, ISN'T actually "freedom."

All in all, it's a challenging topic!