How to increase the chance of sex after bringing a girl home.

in #dating7 years ago (edited)

Picture a night out where you meet a girl and the chemistry is right and you get on like a house on heat with her. Then she agrees to go home with you. Now most guys think that is it. That the cat is in the bag and a night of hot romping is guaranteed. Well here is news for you. Many women have last minute resistance and anything can trigger a bail out. I do not wish any readers to even imagine that painful situation, as here are some tips to minimise this from happening.

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We are going to focus on your place where you bring the girl back to. Women are curious creatures and will notice details like your DVD collection, book collection, and magazines you have around the place, and also the general state of how you keep your house and bedroom. By doing this they are piecing together a picture of the guy that they are deciding on whether to have sex with or not. Now after all the hard work and anticipation of getting her there you do not want to minimise your chances of having sex by inviting her into a dump, or a student flat full of young boys after a Saturday night. From inviting her in to getting her into bed should be a smooth process. And the following tips may or may not seem like common sense. But it will synchronise with the hard wiring of the female brain.

The Kitchen:

What’s in your fridge? What have you got to offer her to drink? She is going to ask for a drink. Is it going to be that half a bottle of bourbon? Or maybe an old bottle of port that no one wants? That is seriously not sexy. Make sure that you have a bottle of white wine chilled in your fridge at all times. It is a drink that is almost universally accepted among chicks. And please have 2 clean wine glasses. A beer mug or a coffee cup is really not cool. And no, don’t offer her a beer.

Girls after a night out are going to be hungry. What are you going to offer her to eat? If you have nothing but stuff you will have to spend time cooking or order a takeaway that is going to take time. That is time in suspension that gives her more space to create that last minute resistance. Make sure you have something that is easy and right there and ready. Have some naughty food. Like chips, chocolate, and other snacks. That is what she is going to want.

Heed this or she may say she is hungry and really need to go home and get something to eat.

Bathroom:

A no brainer is not to have a filthy floor and toothpaste stains all over the sink and mirror. And most importantly have toilet tissues available next to a toilet that does not look like a mud cake. That stuff is big to a woman. And here is the ultimate must have in the bathroom. A clean fluffy unused towel that she can use, if she sees a damp beige towel that was once white she will find that as a perfect excuse to go home. Women want to wake up before you do and have a shower and make themselves look beautiful like they did the night before. And have some decent shower gel and shampoo. She is not going to stay over if she sees nothing but a crusty piece of Palmolive that has not been touched in a few weeks.

Bedroom:

Must have a made bed, must have clean sheets. No empty food containers or dirty dishes. Lose the porn magazines, and anything that smells like old socks. And guys it is worth tidying your room for right?

Be mindful of what music you have and is it ready to go. Are you going to go into the bedroom and goofily fumble around with an iPod dock or a cd player? You are giving her another chance of last minute resistance. Be prepared. Have a laptop of a device with a good playlist that is just ready to go at the touch of a button. She will appreciate that and the mood will be set.

Lighting in your room is very important. Always have some form of soft lighting be it a dimmer or a lamp. There is nothing worse than pitch dark or a bright light. Girls have just come from a club or a restaurant where the lighting is soft that makes her look good. She will not want you to see every blemish on her face and elsewhere. Oh and candles are not so great as they are a little 80’s and can come across as a little creepy to some girls.

There is a ton of stuff that can be discussed about getting it right when it comes to bringing a girl home for a passionate night. But what was pointed out in this article does not require skill. It is just about being prepared, and not being sloppy. Plenty of guys can pick up but if he brings home a girl and gives her excuses leave like a having nothing for her to eat or drink but tap water and have her cringe at a poo stain in the toilet. So take a little time to do some shopping and setup your pad properly. This is the kind of thing that no guys should get wrong.

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Bear with me and I'll try to summarize what I've read in a few sentences to see if I get the gist of it...

  1. Look like someone who has their shit together -- i.e. does responsible stuff like pay their utility bills, do the dishes, and keep their space relatively clean.
  2. Be a good host -- Do what you can to make your special guest feel comfortable.

While I don't necessarily agree with the specifics -- white wine in a special glass is not one of my requirements, and an immaculate house might make me feel guilty about my own mess back home -- the general principles are solid.

P.S. Guys, if for some reason you didn't prepare before you went out and you DO have a messy place, please act a little embarrassed by it before she sees it.

Thank you.. And yes... when guys and girls have their shit together it is attractive. How ever I believe guys are less inclined to care as much as they are more simple. Especially in that situation.

And thank you for the tip to guys. Many of us would not know to do that :)

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Preparation is key to many things in life. Thanks for your wisdom.

Thank you... you still single and having fun in the dating scene?

Will useful for someone :)

Lol it has been :)

Quick hypothetical question -- If I (a woman) have invited a man back to my place and want to have sex with him, do I have to make similar preparations?

I am really not sure. I would like to think that girls are tidier than guys in general. I believe though that if a girl really wanted to impress a particular guy she would make it immaculate...

Now have a look at this one for size ...

https://steemit.com/dating/@yoda1917/i-once-dated-a-sex-worker-it-was-an-experience-i-wish-never-to-repeat-again-i-was-interviewed-by-a-reporter-within-the-sex

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