What a beautiful family you got there. Keep up.
A funny story. My cousins never understood how we could be friends and spend time with our father watching television. Their father was so scary he called himself simba wa nyumba. They ran to their rooms whenever he arrived, at times shaking. One time I visited them, I refused to leave the TV room. When he met me there he looked at me like a defiant kid. Told me to run. I never went back.