RE: Judge Opinions, Not People || Everybody Has Their (Hi)Story
People who start discussing without any reason have no real interest in evolution or change, they rather impede it.
This is the number 1 reason why people get into circular arguments! They are judging the person, so they get into this full on attack mode. It gets the two people pissed off at each other, and nothing productive comes out of it.
Avoid that kinda stuff at all cost!
I have a work buddy who would just find every reason to start an argument with me over policies in the US. After a few months, it just became attacks, and I got pissed off at him and told him to go shove it and to look at himself before he judges someone else's opinion. Literally everything you spoke about above. This kind of stuff can destroy friendships and relationships.
Well said!
Hey, nice to see you in my blog :-)
I fully agree with everything you said here. An atmosphere of constructive debate is hard to find, but everybody can learn that. It's like a culture of habits. Also it's a way of showing respect towards the people that are close to you. That applies both in business and private relationships.
Thanks for sharing your valuable thoughts. Appreciated! :-)
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