Reminds me of societal trouble naming/quoting/recording/reporting "Abuse"/"Trauma" ("War") in general?

"In a striking moment of candor, Mr. Putin’s closest foreign ally, Aleksandr G. Lukashenko, the ruler of neighboring Belarus, called the fighting a war — a term forbidden in Russia — and acknowledged that it was not going well for Russia. “I feel like this operation has dragged on,” he said in an interview with The Associated Press."
(from The New York Times: What Happened on Day 71 of the War in Ukraine https://www.nytimes.com/live/2022/05/05/world/ukraine-russia-war-news)

Calling fighting Abuse is forbidden in Family (just as calling fighting War is forbidden in Countries).

Related/correlated whether war/trauma er/or country/family?

Further to the point, why do we have to defend spelling War/Abuse interchangably when https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_War_Zone / https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0141974/ / https://medhum.med.nyu.edu/view/10165 / https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/1093506-war_zone / https://www.metacritic.com/movie/the-war-zone is normalized Hollywood/Hollycryptowood verbiage (yet the second some nobody makes an analogy, they're treated as a moron how)?

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This is why I coined Domestic-International Violence (with #DomIntVio #DomesticInternationalViolence hashtags to boot), because the correlaries are painful, terminology for International Violence is nearly Domestic Violence in all seriousness.