You are right about the "hard wired" aspect. That does explain men's/women's way of thinking, but cannot be used as an excuse. We should just take a minute to reflect about what we are about to do or say, before we actually act/write or hit the "Post" button.

Well, I am sure most of us do so. Just imagine what speak we'd read hear if our posts were always an unfiltered mirror of our minds and desires...