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RE: The Deadpost Initiative - Week 11 - Share your most undervalued work + week 10 winners ($24 STEEM prize pool)
Well. None of my posts are old enough to qualify. But. I did find this gem of a piece that was viewed over times but only received .22 cents.
https://steemit.com/love/@vanessavi/what-s-the-difference-between-love-and-neediness
I like this. A lot of ideas people get fixated on without truly understanding the deeper meaning.
With my husband, I don't feel that I fell in love with him. The energy is proof that love goes beyond what we can tangibly comprehend. We love each other, it is a state of being, it has always existed, and when we found each other, we recognised that love. It's weird to explain, but we didn't "fall", we landed ;)
We are attracted to each other on an emotional level and through the energies first. Through that love, we find each other attractive. I can look at a guy and admire his good looks, but that deep love, those energies, they are only there with Frank, and they are always there.
Frank is not my only source of happiness, but he contributes to my overall happiness. I have needs and so does he, we needs each other because of that love that contributes to our happiness. We also need to respect our other needs and our love guides us to know when and how to compromise, as well as the difference between a fear and a need. Some needs are based on fears. Other needs are truer needs. Some needs also originate from within and can only be fulfilled by self-love and therefore our love can help us find that when we need each other to guide each other. We are always growing, evolving, together, side by side, individually, yet dually too.
It's funny how I used to think I knew what love was. When I met Frank, those energies, seriously. We can sometimes make love without even getting physical. It's magical. And after nearly seven years, it has only grown stronger. The cheesy line though of "when you meet the one, you just know" I guess it kinda true. I thought I knew for other people, but then I TRULY knew. And I have no words to explain that. We simply are, we can just be who we are, and we love.
Okay, correction from my above first statement: I love this post.
I love her clear thinking. Thanks for posting @metzli