My mother has always said to me, "If you want your brother to treat you well, you have to treat him well", and this applies not only to my blood brothers, but to all those around me, and although we don't always get the desired response, this only indicates that change comes from within, when one individual makes the difference, and this is positive, the rest comes as a side effect, but always the real change starts from within, the external change is not always a change.