STEEMIT VIRUS CONTEST : CHEATING•-•A MAJOR HOME BREAKER

Hello steemians,
I am writing this post in a bid to participate in the steemit virus contest 6 organised by @gbenga and managed by @steemit-virus to reward the creativity of good authors on steemit

source:- @steemit-virus

MY INTERPRETATION OF THE ABOVE IMAGE
Two hands of a man,the left hand bears a ring and dirt is covered all the right hand and a small portion of the left hand is left uncovered by dirt.

I think the image is trying to relate an experience where a married man cheated on his wife,he then realises the gravity of what he has done and wants to make ammends,the position of the hands proove this.If dirt had covered his hands entirely,i would have suggested that the case was divorce,but since there is a little fragment of his hand that is quite clean,the best interpretation is a cheat.

WHO IS A CHEAT(CHEATING)
A situation whereby a man or woman binded by a marriage contract or into a serious and promising relationship intends to or engages in a secret love affair or relationship which might result to sex.

Cheating is frowned upon by various religious,social and moral beliefs as it is considered as an act of dishonesty and greatly discouraged in our society,although speaking rationally,I would like to say the act of cheating is on an increase rather than decrease in our society.

I have been ranting about CHEATING since the beginning of this post but haven't really gave an insight into what exactly makes a person a cheat and why partners cheat on their lovers even though they are well aware of its many negative consequences.lets quickly evaluate some causes of cheating.

●FAILURE TO ACHEIVE THE PURPOSES OF MARRIAGE:- when a couple gets married,the main purposes are sexual satisfaction and production of offsprings as well as a union of certain love between a couple.when one or all these listed purposes are not met or their relevance gets weak...Cheating might set in.

●LUST:- it is in the default configurations of man to feel certain sexual urge and feelings towards people they are attracted to ,this feeling does not stop after marriage,some partners are unable or weak to control their sexual desires with other persons and result to cheat.

●NATURE :- All human beings are created in different ramifications with distinct characteristics,sometimes its just the personality in some people that lure them to cheat,they freely cheat and feel less guilt because its what they naturally feel like doing and get a lot of job from it.

●BOREDOM AND LACK OF ATTENTION:- this is a major cause of cheating especially in women,women are precious creatures of God who derives a lot of joy and happiness in love,care,affection and attention by those they love especially their partners,if a woman doesnt get the attention she thinks she deserves,she might surrender to cheat with someone who gives her the attention she needs.

●MISTAKES:- honestly,I dont know if this is actually a cause of cheating or not,but I think we are all human biengs and are perfectly imperfect, our unfortunate actions which we take might result in cheating even without really knowing,sometimes it happens suddenly and unexpectedly.

FEW WAYS TO STOP CHEATING
●seek for God's assistance and help
●Think of the love you had for your partner before you got engaged
●Put yourself in your partner's shoes
●Consider the disasters which might enact out of the disastrous act
●TRY TO BE FAITHFUL!!!

In conclusion,cheating have become a constant variable of life and has proven to be resistant and dominant in our society but I believe it can be significantly reduced if couples work towards being loyal and faithful to each other as well as avoid the factors that might lead to cheat.

I am using this opportunity to urge and plead to couples to kindly endeavour to stop and discourage themselves,family and friends from cheating,remember, a change starts with you by @amec

Special thanks to @gbenga and @steemit-virus for this awesome badge and opportunity,I am really grateful,till the next time when we meet,I remain my humble self @amec