Throughout last week, I'd been reading extensively about Criticism because I had a experience about it.
I do have a friend who is a good friend, but he has this flaw of always seeing the negative part of everyone, he wouldn't appreciate you for doing something well and he would condemn outrightly if you were doing something wrong, Not until last week when I went to stay with him did I realize the damning effect of criticism.
he wouldn't see the good things I did and would always nag about every little thing I did wrong, he doesn't know how to encourage a person if the person is down and would always find a way to boost his his ego by telling you how awesome he would perform,if it was him that were to be in that situation.
This lifestyle aroused a kind of resentment from me towards him because it made me feel less of myself and I experience a downslide of my self esteem, worst still I started doing things incorrectly .
I am back to my house,where we correct each other with praise for the little effort you'd put in and automatically I've seen myself doing things correctly.
This has made me promise to cut out criticism and become lavish with my praises of recent, I now know that criticism pays nothing in comparism to its neighbors of admiration .