I am not of much help monetarily speaking. The only thing I could do is upvote you and wish you all the best of luck! Remember that stuff is just that "stuff!" You still have your life and with some effort you'll rebuy and repair what you have lost. Besides, you have a gorgeous girlfriend and the band members that need your support right now. Don't complain, it doesn't lead you anywhere, just get busy and help the others overcome this. Best of luck buddy!