You could be talking about me! In my defense, when I came to steem the learning curve was stupendous, and discord just seemed impossible to decipher. Now that I've gotten my sea legs on steem (as long as they don't get ripped out from under me by another fork) I've been venturing into discord. There's only so much time in a day though! I marvel at those who have time to both post AND chat in discord. I can do one or the other at this point. So what I'm trying to say is, some of us just can't quite figure it all out. We want to and are trying our best.